Established in February 1999, bothsidesnow is - still, as far as we know, the only Mailing List of its type in the world. Dedicated to bisexual people who giddily give their hearts to alternative music, over three hundred members get regular piles of email on everything from the state of Justine Frischmann's bathroom to the punk scene in the American heartlands; from swapping tales of love life disasters to the dangers of being sexually harrassed by chocolate. You can expect quite a lot of messages in your inbox, although there are also digest and webonly formats for those of you who dont want to be disturbed with muffin recipes and unrequited love woes twenty four hours a day

