bothsidesnow likes lots of things... coffee,chocolate, boys, girls, long saturday mornings in bed with the Weekend Guardian. None of these things can be directly downloaded from the 'net, unfortunately. For two you have to get up and go to Tescos. However, there is lots of web-based stuff that we like too. And here's some of our favourite links and rings that we've kissed.

MUCK ABOUT WITH YOUR SEXUALITY & GENDER LINKS

Not every bisexual is a crossdresser. Not every crossdresser is a bisexual. Not all transgendered person considers themselves a transvestite. Whatever, if you've got a dick, wear skirts and kind-of-like bsn and our sort of stuff, then you should check out Mascara. Well-dressed and sassy boys in frocks.

Talking of boys in eyeliner, for stuff with a Placebo-esque slant call in at the eyeliner fetish site.

If you're just finding your two feet in the wild world of bisexuality, or if you've been identifying yourself as bisexual for years, you're bound to find something to interest you at bi.org - a massive database of links, groups, organisations and the whole of the ambisexual world in one easy click.

MUSIC LINKS

TweeKitten has been running for ages, with a bulletin board service, chatroom and whole sub-community for the semi-underground musical tweesters

If you want to keep up to date with what's happening musically, you could do worse than join Firecracker which keeps an eye on the various burgeoning sources of fact and half truth on the web, fillets them for the best bit and then provides a chance for you to say "Well, what do you think about that, then?"

A quick plug for one of my 'day job' things... Liverpool Now is the 365-day arm of the Liverpool Now music festival - at the moment updates of news relating to the local music scene and Liverpool bands. There's a complete overhaul in the offing, which you may well feel it is in desperate need of.

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